the process of finding your best matches

If DNA matching is the chemistry of our service, then values matching is the heart, where we introduce you to those whom you match at a deep level of your mind.

 

We believe that we've got the best personality matching system--anywhere.

 

The beauty is in the simplicity. We match you according to your fundamental, core values. 

Psychologists have determined a range of values that, taken together, compose the full array of principles that define us as human beings.  We all value these principles to one degree or another, but we all prioritize them differently than most other people. 

When you list these various principles in order of importance to you, it represents your Personal Values Profile.

 

We operate on the theory that people with the same Personal Values Profiles get along the best, because their fundamental, core beliefs are the same.  

 

So, the term "personality matching" doesn't really apply; it's closer to soul matching, or values matching.

 

We use this method for two reasons. First, when your core beliefs match someone else's, you're bonded at a very deep level.

 

Second, other methods are too inexact. Experts rampantly disagree about what specific personality traits should be matched with others. Do opposites attract, or should partners be the same in every way? Which characteristics are more important than others? Everyone seems to have their own opinion. The experts disagree. It's an inexact science.

 

But, many agree that matching core values is a key to successful relationships. Other dating services also match your core values, but then they go further and filter out more people based on unproven theories. We don't weed out extra people when the accuracy of the weeding doesn't justify removing more of YOUR matches. If you're going to be the test subject of an experiment, you shouldn't pay them--they should pay you!

 

One thing you'll love about our values matching process is how fast and easy it is. The simplicity of the theory extends to the ease of the test. In fact, there is no test! Rather than answering hundreds of exam questions, you simply arrange your values in the right order for you.

 

There's only one rule: Once you submit it, you won't be able to change your Personal Values Profile. You'll have to commit to it.

 

Despite that provision, you control most of the process. Since it's not an exact science, we don't force you to use it. You can view people who match your values exactly, or you can turn it down so you'll see others who match you by at least 75%, or 50%, or whatever degree you want.

 

We're confident that our values-matching system is effective, easy, and it doesn't severely limit your matches without justification. Which is why we believe it's the best psychological matching system available.